Unconventional Life – Podcast, Blog, Live Events

Author: Jules Schroeder

  • Leading Business From Intuition

    Leading Business From Intuition

    Emily Rosen is the director of the Institute for the Psychology of Eating, an online education and certification program centered around a healthy relationship to food, body, and self. She is also the founder of Secret Keepers, an up-and-coming jewelry line.

    In Emily’s episode, you’ll learn:

    • Tips to build an engaged online community (the heart of your brand).
    • How to strengthen your intuition.
    • How to find the blessings in your hardships.

    Key lessons from Emily’s episode:

    1. The Same Rules of Community Apply Online. Emily says, “Online, the platforms change, the algorithms change, but the actual core underpinnings are always the same. Attention is our #1 commoddity. From there it’s usually educating, informing, and connecting. If you moved into a new neighborhood you would go knock on people’s doors, introduce yourself, and offer something of value like banana bread, or you would host a party and then you would give them a taste of who you are and offer them something so they had a good experience. It’s the same thing online.”

    How does this look in practice online? Offer something of value to your community when they join—a free resource like a guide or discount code. Check in on your customers every once in a while. A well-intentioned “we haven’t heard from you in awhile, is everything ok?” or “just checking in, how are you?” message can really make people feel important. Treat your community members as living, breathing, human beings. Attend to their needs online like you would in real life. Be hospitable, warm, and inviting. Be a good host.

    2. Connect to Your Intuition Through Your Breath. Are you seeking to connect more deeply to your intuition? Don’t underestimate the wisdom that lies in your body.

    “Breathe into your belly,” Emily says. “The breath pattern of anxiety and stress is that upper register short breath, and from that place, you’re not going to make as clean decisions, you’re going to make survival-based decisions; you don’t have access to that higher knowing.”

    3. Honor Your Journey. After years of battling an eating disorder, Emily’s work at the Institute for the Psychology of Eating is a defining moment in her journey. It is a testament to the personal work she has done to overcome one of her life’s greatest hardships. It brings her journey full-circle in that she can now give the gift to others that she herself needed to receive most.

    Doing this can be one of the most fulfilling and rewarding things in life. If you struggle to find meaning in your work, ask yourself, how can I honor my journey? What have you personally struggled with? What thing did you go through that you wish nobody else in life would ever have to go through? In helping others in the way we needed help most, we vicariously help ourselves.

  • Risking it All to Gain Everything: Why Taking Risks for a Life You Love is Worth It

    Risking it All to Gain Everything: Why Taking Risks for a Life You Love is Worth It

    Cat Kom is the founder of Studio SWEAT, an online fitness streaming service and community of thousands of users from around the world. Studio SWEAT features cycling, bootcamp, yoga, pilates, HIIT and other kinds of high intensity workouts.

    In Kat’s episode, you’ll learn:

    • Why it’s essential you honor your intuition—even if it doesn’t make logical sense.
    • How to create success as a woman in a male-dominated industry.
    • How to stay grounded in the midst of fierce competition.

    Key lessons from Cat’s episode:

    1. It’s Never Too Late to Seize Your Dreams. Cat’s success in the fitness industry is inspiring not only in its own right, but because it followed a long career in the corporate IT world. Cat chose to work in the tech industry because it was a viable way to support herself and her newborn as a young mom in college. She climbed the corporate ladder and found traditional success—a high salary and a prestigious job title—yet she felt something was missing.

    Her intuition was getting louder and louder, calling her to her passion of fitness. Though it didn’t make logical sense, Cat decided to take a leap of faith into the fitness industry. It was challenging at first, but through hard work and perseverance, Cat was able to make her joy passion her source of revenue.

    If you’ve ever told yourself “I’m too old,” or “It’s too late for me to start a new career,” think again. Cat’s victory shows us anybody can start over in a new industry, no matter how old. It’s never too late to seize your dreams.

    2. Don’t Let Your Gender Hold You Back. As a woman in the fitness world, Cat was outnumbered. The majority of the figures in the space were men by far, about 3:1. While this was certainly intimidating for Cat, she didn’t let it stop her. Instead, she developed thicker skin. “I became a bulldog. You need to stand your ground and not be intimidated when your ground needs to be stood.”

    Are you a woman in a male-dominated industry, or a man in a female-dominated industry? While gender norms can be discouraging, they are only norms until somebody changes them. Be the change. Be a trailblazer. Stand your ground.

    3. Don’t Let the Competition Change You. When you’re up against fierce competition, the pressure is real. It can be hard not to compare your brand to theirs, or not to check in on what they’re doing and try to one-up them. But it’s important to your sense of well-being and the integrity of your brand not to.

    Cat says, “Believe in the value of your service. Stay on your course and continue to provide an amazing service at a fair price point. If you just try to constantly react to everything around you you start to make decisions based just on money. You have to think about it from the customer’s standpoint—continuing to serve them well. The money will follow if you do that.”

  • How to Work More Productively and Have More Free Time

    How to Work More Productively and Have More Free Time

    Liam Martin is the co-founder of Time Doctor, a productivity software with the largest second-by-second work database in the world. Time Doctor has been proven to increase worker productivity by an average 22% and is a fast-growing tool that’s being increasingly used by major companies.

    In this episode, Liam shares his key research findings on worker productivity. If you’re somebody who could benefit from effective time management strategies, or you’re simply curious about the science and psychology behind distraction, this is an episode you won’t want to miss.

    In Liam’s episode, you’ll learn:

    • The productivity cost of having notifications like Facebook turned on (it’s much higher than you think!)
    • Strategies to optimize productivity… a.k.a. work fewer hours.
    • The “distraction economy” – why billions have been invested into distracting you and how to defend yourself from potential threats to your productivity.

    Key lessons from Liam’s episode:

    1. Optimal Productivity Requires a Distraction-Free Work Zone. For a moment, I want you to visualize your typical work zone in your mind’s eye. Where do you work? Do you work in the presence of others—perhaps at a library, or at your local trendy coffee shop? Do you listen to music while you work? Is your phone easily accessible? Are notifications turned on? Do you often hop between multiple tabs?

    Chances are, you said yes to a few of the questions above. And it’s no wonder. The average millennial work environment is distraction-laden, with a typical worker getting only 3 hours worth of work done of the 8 they work. The other 5 hours are filled with Facebook memes, chatty rendezvous at the water cooler, and mindless web surfing.

    Time Doctor’s research shows that the most productive work occurs inside a distraction-free work zone. This means making yourself 100% unavailable to outside distractions and notifications while you work.

    “Get yourself into a flow state and create a sacred space,” Liam says.

    For optimal productivity, consider adopting these principles:

    • Work in a secluded, private room.
    • Disable notifications on your computer and mobile device(s).
    • Only have open tabs that are relevant to your current task.
    • Declutter your computer desktop.
    • Dedicate yourself to only one task at a time, and suppress the impulse to do anything unrelated to that task for an allotted time period.
    • Install useful browser plug-ins, like:

    2. Distractions Come at a High Cost. According to Time Doctor’s research, the cost of opening a single notification—for example, clicking on an incoming message from your friend via Facebook Messenger—is a whopping 16 minutes.

    Yes, 16 minutes! (Not one minute, like we tell ourselves it will take 😉 ).

    How many times do you click on incoming notifications in a single hour (emails, texts, reminders, etc.)? How about in a typical day? The point is, it all really starts to add up.

    3. You Can Beat Distractions With Mindfulness. Time Doctor’s software is designed to minimize the amount of times you get baited by incoming distractions. It’s based on the simple philosophy of mindfulness—when you bring awareness to an unconscious process, you gain the power to make a conscious choice about it.

    Here’s how it works… Time Doctor assigns you one task at one time. That way, you can execute with laser-sharp focus. As soon as a distraction (like a notification) comes along, if you attempt to pursue the distraction (by opening a new tab or a new app), Time Doctor will flash an alert on your screen.

    “You’re now leaving productivity town and are headed to distractionville,” Liam jokes.

    What might have been an unconscious habit, you’re now forced to consciously evaluate.

    Imagine a friend who gently holds a mirror up to your behavior, reminding you of your goals and asking you to consider if the choice you’re considering making is in alignment with those goals.

    Of course, you’re in the driver’s seat. You can always choose to pursue the distraction anyways, but the difference is, you’re now making an informed choice, fully aware.

    Bringing mindfulness around your work zone has been proven to powerfully increase productivity. Time Doctor’s research shows the average worker gets 22% more done in a day using its software.

    What does 22% of your work day translate into? For the average 9 to 5er, that’s nearly two hours of your workday freed up.

  • Startup Life: What It Takes to Be Successful in Tech

    Startup Life: What It Takes to Be Successful in Tech

    Kushal Ghimire is a successful serial entrepreneur and the founder and CEO of Assignmate, an app that helps students connect with tutors worldwide.

    In this episode 125, Kushal and Jules dive into the world of tech startups. Kushal brings a unique lens because he’s helping pioneer the new wave of startup culture in Nepal, which was virtually nonexistent until recent years.

    You’ll learn:

    • Tips to develop an app from the drawing board to production.
    • How to find and enroll investors to fund your app.
    • Daily practices to keep yourself focused, motivated, and productive at work.

    Key lessons from this episode:

    1. Persevere. Kushal and his team brought Assignmate to life in spite of countless setbacks. Based out of Nepal, they endured frequent 18-hour “blackout” periods with no electricity or wifi. While they could have used this as justification to give up on their dreams, instead they used it as a testament to their strength. They didn’t give up; they persevered. The lesson? Don’t make obstacles your excuse, make them part of your testimony.

    2. Emulate Your Role Models. Kushal modeled his app off of Uber. He was inspired by the success Uber had using the simple principle of making others’ lives easier. Identify which companies in your industry are at the top and study what sets them apart. Emulate this and make it your own.

    3. Be a Leader. If you don’t know of anyone doing what you want to do, don’t let that stop you. You don’t need to wait for other people to lead the way; you can be a leader and a pioneer. Nepal lacked a tech startup scene, so what did Kushal do? He bought a ticket to the US, immersed himself in the startup scene there, and brought it back home. He saw an opening and decided to initiate action and fill it. Take decisive action and be the one to generate new possibilities.

    4. Create a Daily Practice and Stick to It. It’s essential to have a daily self-care practice, ritual, or routine that helps keep you in the best physical and mental state to be effective. Kushal says he wakes up early everyday and works out first thing in the morning. What sparks your creativity, elevates your mood, and energizes you? Whether it’s an exercise routine, a walk in nature, a soak in the tub, or a drink from your favorite smoothie joint, make a list of actions that are vital to your well-being and be sure to do some of them daily so you can do your best work.

    5. Utilize Your Resources. Reading books, listening to podcasts, watching vlogs, attending free webinars, and the like are great tools to accelerate your growth. Immersing yourself in these resources can be beneficial simply for the sake of being in the “atmosphere” of powerful people. Mindset, energy, and belief systems are contagious. Surround yourself with successful and uplifting and you will invariably adopt some of their habits and success-oriented outlooks on life.

  • How To Start An Online Business With Bluehost

    How To Start An Online Business With Bluehost

    In this post, you will learn everything you need to know about starting an online business from the ground up, even if you have no prior business experience! Starting an online business has been one of the most rewarding experiences for me, allowing me to travel full-time and work from anywhere in the world where there is wifi. I love having the freedom to set my own hours and the fulfillment that comes from earning a living doing what I love most. With the step-by-step instructions I share in this article, you’ll be able to start your own business today!

    If you’re ready to launch your own online business, the very first thing you’ll need to do is decide on a hosting service to host your website.

    I personally use Bluehost, and I’ve had excellent experience with them.

    I’ve negotiated with them an exclusive discount you can use if you sign up with them using this link here. For just $2.75 a month—less than the price of a cup of coffee!—you can get your own website up and running, which is where you will open up shop and begin making sales. Plus, if you use my link to sign up you will get your domain absolutely free with a 12-month or longer hosting plan. I highly recommend signing up for a minimum 12-month hosting plan, because you’ll pay a much lower monthly rate than you would otherwise.

    While there’s many other web hosting providers out there, I use Bluehost because I feel it’s the best one on the market.. I personally own over a dozen different domains that I’ve used to sell all kinds of products, and I’ve experimented with many different hosting services, only to switch all of them over to Bluehost.