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Author: Jules Schroeder

  • How To Use Your Digital Footprint To Advance Your Career

    How To Use Your Digital Footprint To Advance Your Career

    In today’s world, your social media presence is essential. The content you share represents who you are and what you stand for—it is your digital footprint.

    With one google search of your name prospective clients, employers, and co-workers can get a snapshot of your history. 93% of employers say they use this snapshot to screen their applicants and 35% eliminate candidates for consideration based on what they find.

    Surveys show employers check LinkedIn as the most popular channel (96%), followed by Facebook (56%), Twitter (41%) and Instagram (7%).

    It’s a common misconception that you should only focus on your social media presence if you want to be an influencer. In many cases having no online presence can hinder your chances for employment or future collaborations even further.

    Knowing how to cultivate an online presence that works in your favor is key. So how do you make your social media presence stand out?

    One Influencer says it’s all about being committed to empowering others and inspiring positive change.

    Meet Rob Fajardo, a 23-year-old thought leader and the founder of Leave Normal Behind, a community, content, and events hub dedicated to empowering others to become their best version through meaningful contribution. Fajardo is on a mission to help purpose-driven messages scale—he’s an advisor for Fownders, a NJ-based social impact accelerator—as well as a contributing author to Rise Up Champion.

    This week on the Unconventional Life Podcast, Fajardo shares how you can create content that will help you advance your career by owning your digital output.

    Be Authentic. 91% of Millennials want those they follow on social media to be authentic. Employers are no different—they want to populate their company with individuals who are in alignment with their company mission. In being authentic, you allow others to connect with you and feel like they know the real you. People can’t connect to a false image of you—they want to see your flaws, your mistakes, your humanity.

    This builds trust, however, it’s important to be mindful of the impressions your photos give off. First impressions are powerful and any incriminating photos can do damage. “It’s all about vulnerability and transparency, showcasing who you are authentically to the world. That’s what gets people to connect with you,” Fajardo says.

    Be Proactive.
    In 2017, it’s basically a requirement to have an online presence. Having no online presence can make recruiters wary, so it’s important to own your online presence by actively creating it. Whether it’s through your LinkedIn profile, a personal website, or writing articles for publications, be proactive in posting content frequently to your platforms and making sure it represents who you are and what you stand for. Personal websites can be a great way to showcase your credentials and skills to prospective employers while also allowing you to create a sphere of influence.

    Your Life As Content.
    Creating content and living your everyday life don’t have to be separate. Content creation is a great way to position yourself as an expert for future collaborations and career advancements.

    Don’t waste time trying to plan an elaborate content schedule with pre-populated ideas. That can get overwhelming and inhibit you from being in action. Instead, let your content emerge spontaneously by sharing your day-to-day activities and opinions. “Have a thought or an opinion? Take 30 seconds to a minute to formulate it and film yourself,” Fajardo says. “Repurpose the things you’re already doing and share it as content on different platforms.”

    Take A Stand. Use social platforms as a way to get your thoughts and opinions about matters you care about out into the world. If there’s a cause that’s particularly important to you, be a vocal advocate about it. When you take a stance, and post about something consistently, you demonstrate your ability to be a force for a cause. In the process you also show future employers causes you care about which helps them know if you are a good fit for their culture.

    Rob says, “If I’m not actively helping I’m indirectly hurting.” How can you use your voice to make the world a better place? What’s experiences have you learned something from that others need to hear? In being a voice for positive change, you establish a reputation for yourself that shows others you are committed to help.

    This article was originally published on Forbes

  • ‘Un-Networking’: The Art Of Leading With Yourself, Not Your Business Card

    ‘Un-Networking’: The Art Of Leading With Yourself, Not Your Business Card

    We live in an age where you have just a few seconds to impress someone with your website, tagline, or bio.

    We have become masters at engineering the “perfect” profiles to hook others in and the right pitches to land the job or career advancements we want. If you can outperform your competition, or your business has 100,000 likes on Facebook, by today’s standards, you should feel accomplished.

    But the truth is, most of us are still starving for something more.

    We’re tired of having to impress all the time and are sick of the superficial, transaction-based relationships. We want to be seen for something deeper than our LinkedIn profiles or our ability to add zeroes to a spreadsheet. We want to be seen for who we are.

    That’s why two millennials are taking a stand for a deeper kind of business connection based on depth and substance. No more leading with your business card, period.

    Meet Bri Seeley and Thaís Sky, the founders of The AMPLIFY Collective, a movement to unite entrepreneurs on the basis of who they are, rather than what they do. The LA-based duo is famous for hosting standout events that provide entrepreneurs with both the authentic connection they crave and the business collaboration they need to thrive.

    I caught up with Seeley and Sky on the latest episode of the Unconventional Life podcast, “Un-Networking: Build a Network You Can Depend On By Leading With Yourself, Not Your Business Card.”

    Sky and Seeley launched The AMPLIFY Collective as an alternative approach to the traditional way of networking. They found that, despite having extensive networks, many entrepreneurs were still starving for real and authentic connection.

    The AMPLIFY Collective was born from the idea that you don’t have to sacrifice friendship for success. You can actually have the best of both worlds: meaningful, one-to-one relationships within a community of ambitious entrepreneurs who have your back.

    The secret lies in what Sky and Seeley call “un-networking,” a methodology they developed that fosters connection on the grounds of who you are, rather than what you have accomplished.

    “It’s more important to show up as who you are than what you do. Don’t lead as your job title—it creates a barrier between people. Form a relationship first, get to know the other person and then call them up for their business skills because you love who they are,” Seeley says.

    The duo claims that when we approach business collaboration from an authentic standpoint, it yields better results. According to the Harvard Business Review, when authenticity is perceived in a business relationship, trust, engagement, and commitment are highest.

    “Business takes place in a greater capacity without the cheesy elevator pitch,” Sky jokes. “Too many of us hide behind what we do without getting to the core of who we are. People buy from us because of who we are, not because of our website.”

    The AMPLIFY Collective currently hosts three events per month to entrepreneurs through its membership offering. The events are distinguished for squashing superficial, transactional exchanges in the name of refreshingly intimate and genuine connection.

    Below, Seeley and Sky share how you can transform your own business relationships to feel meaningful and relevant to you

    1. Lead with yourself. Who you are is your greatest accomplishment, and should be at the forefront of an introduction. Lead with what it is that wakes you up in the morning and drives you every single day, or the kind of change you’re standing for in the world. Make sure to omit your job title and how successful you are—these things are secondary and have nothing to do with you.

    2. Focus on the value you get from the relationship. Don’t go into an interaction with an agenda or something you’re trying to get from the other person. Instead, simply let the relationship with that person and the joy you get from knowing them be enough. Others can sense when your motivation for connecting with them isn’t pure and it creates a barrier between you both. If you do really need help with something, disclose that and be fully transparent rather than coercive.

    3. Let the business value emerge from a space of authenticity. Let the foundation for your connection be a commitment to show up as a friend for the other person regardless of what you get in return. From that space, allow any business collaboration to emerge organically. An added benefit to waiting is that you are more likely to understand the other person’s unique skill set and where they are best suited to serve you after you really know them. The quality of the collaboration will be much higher as well as feel better for you both—instead of feeling used or disposable, you’ll feel like a valued friend.

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  • How This Millennial Turned His Biggest Fear Into A Business

    How This Millennial Turned His Biggest Fear Into A Business

    Fear… It can be paralyzing. It may be what is keeping you stuck in that job or relationship that you hate.

    Neuroscience tells us that when the fear system of the brain is active, we are less likely to take risks, and more likely to cling onto what we already have. Moreover, fear requires massive energy—so much, in fact, that it impairs your ability to focus on other tasks at hand.

    With the ever-present threat of not having a job, suffering a hit in business, or the uncertainty of finding success on your own, the reality is that fear has got most of us locked in its grips.

    Can you imagine what might open up for you if, instead of spending all that time worrying, you decided to confront your fears head-on?

    One man did exactly that, and the result was astounding.

    Meet Brian D. Evans, the founder of Influencive, a content platform with over 1 million readers a month, though it was only created 8 months ago. Evans is also responsible for the 25th fastest-growing advertising and marketing agency in the U.S., BDE Ventures. He launched Influencive as a way to tackle his lifelong fear of sharing his voice as a writer, and now, he’s helping transform the day-to-day lives of millions of aspiring entrepreneurs.

    I caught up with Evans about confronting fear head-on in the latest episode of the Unconventional Life podcast, “How To Use Fear To Fuel Your Greatness.”

    Evans says the catalyst to dive into his fear was a near-death experience he had as a child. At the age of eight, he suffered a near-fatal bike accident that would forever change his perspective after he went head first over handlebars into the corner of a brick wall. It awakened him to the fleeting nature of life and the urgency to rise up and create something meaningful.

    Through that experience, Evans recognized the importance of overcoming what is standing in your way to serve a greater purpose. For Evans, this was the fear of being heard. “I was scared to death of writing,” he says. “If you had asked me three years ago if I would be writing on big sites one day, including my own, I would say absolutely not.”

    Though writing wasn’t his strong suit, Evans saw a need in the world for inspiring content that would motivate young entrepreneurs to achieve their goals. They were hungry for daily inspiration backed by concrete and applicable direction, and no platform on the market was offering this. Thus, Influencive was born.

    Day by day, Evans began testing his ideas by simply throwing new content out there. He started improving his grammar and technical writing and before he knew it he had a network of people—first 5, 10, 50, now 105—that wanted to write for the site. Soon after he started getting invited to write for Inc. magazine, Entrepreneur and many other leading media outlets.

    Today, Influencive has over one million readers per month, a hundred thousand plus Facebook followers and is quickly becoming the go-to platform for inspirational content for young and aspiring entrepreneurs. Evans currently serves as editor-in-chief and CEO alongside his partner and COO Clinton Senkow.

    Below, Evans shares how you can use your fear as fuel for success.

    Eliminate conditional statements from your vocabulary. The words you speak reflect your mindset and determine the outcome of your success. To be successful, you must align your beliefs, words, and actions with certainty. Evans says he views success as inevitable, and has removed phrases like “try,” “if it happens,” and “maybe” from his everyday vocabulary.

    Focus on one task at a time. “Ambitious entrepreneurs are like, ‘I want to do all these things, I want to conquer the world’… but you have to start somewhere,” Evans advises. “People have this idea of wanting to do all these things at once, but it’s too much. You really just need to have incredible laser focus on 1 or 2 things.” He recommends writing a list of 25 things you want to accomplish in your life, and narrowing down just five that you want to accomplish in the next two years. Commit to finishing these first five things before you move on to the rest of the list to ensure that you’re actually accomplishing what you intend to.

    Mobilize others to support your mission. Whatever it is you are creating, it’s much easier to achieve with the help of others. Enroll others in a collective vision that isn’t centered around a single person, but rather is dedicated to the whole. “You have to have a collective vision. It’s not about one person, it’s not about me, it’s the collective vision of the whole thing. If you can find people and bring them together into a bigger vision, I think that bigger collective is a stronger base to make things successful quickly,” says Evans.

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  • Why This Founder Is Starting A Movement To Empower Young Entrepreneurs

    Why This Founder Is Starting A Movement To Empower Young Entrepreneurs

    The era of the big brand is on the decline with big names like Coca-Cola, McDonald’s, Macy’s, and The Gap consistently losing revenue in recent years.

    That’s because a new wave of conscious consumers has been born, and they’re voting with their dollars in favor of products that contribute to a greater good.

    If you want to stay relevant in this day and age, you’ll need to adapt to consumers’ new preferences. Simply selling a product is no longer an option; instead, you’ll need to give people something to stand behind.

    “Rallying people around a cause they care about allows them to create personal meaning and connection to your brand, becoming loyal followers who are compelled to share your mission with others,” says Elizabeth Kanna, a brand impact strategist.

    One cofounder is doing just that with his brand movement Youngry, an online media and education platform that aims to empower young entrepreneurs to become successful in the 21st century.

    Meet Ash Kumra, a two-time White House award winner, speaker, author, and former talk show host. After launching a handful of businesses that lacked real substance and purpose, Kumra has reversed his approach to entrepreneurship to lead with the consumer first–and it’s rewarding him more than ever.

    I caught up with Kumra about his new approach to business on the latest episode of Unconventional Life, “Set Your Brand on Fire: How to Start a Powerful & Profitable Movement.”

    Kumra’s journey to entrepreneurship began when he spontaneously gave a speech to his entire college fraternity for the chance to speak at a nation-wide Greek conference–and won. While the other contenders spoke for minutes on end, Kumra kept it short and sweet, with the unforgettable words, “I eat, drink, and sleep greek life,” before dropping the mic and exiting stage.

    As the audience roared, Kumra realized he had a knack for communication and could effortlessly enroll others in his mission. “In that moment I realized gosh, I can communicate,” he says.

    Now, Kumra is using his gift of communication to enlist others in a force for public good, with his latest venture Youngry.

    What makes Youngry unique is its community-funded operations model. To date, Youngry has sourced tens of thousands of dollars from nearly one hundred investors–everyday, nonaccredited contributors like you and me.

    Kumra chose to fund Youngry this way to create a strong bond between brand and community. “It’s the best way to get connected to your core audience,” he explains. “We said let’s ask our community–the people who are gonna get help from Youngry, the early-stage entrepreneurs, those who want to contribute, the mentors, the partners, let’s ask them all to back us from day one. Let’s let them be a part of our journey so that as we rise they rise.”

    To Kumra, Youngry is less a company for individual profit than it is a movement that benefits thousands. It is a place for young entrepreneurs to come together and learn how to build businesses that serve the planet.

    “When you unite people on common ground with a shared objective, people will mobilize together and make the brand a success,” says Kumra. Below, Kumra shares how you can position your own brand as a movement.

    1. Consider using equity crowdfunding. This is effective for two reasons: you can attain funding without having to worry about finding an Angel investor, and you create a bridge between your brand and your target audience. Nothing says movement like a bootstrappy “by the people, for the people.” If you go with equity crowdfunding, you’ll need to file legal documentation with the U.S. Securities and Exchange Commission to document each of your investors. Kumra recommends hiring an advisor to ensure a smooth and simple process.

    2. Start your business for purpose, not trend. When you’re in an industry for the trend, it’s because you’ve noticed there is profit to be made and you’re looking to make a quick buck. When money isn’t flowing, you’re likely to leave. If this describes you, you’ll want to reconsider a different industry that you’re truly passionate about–in other words, the motivation for your work must be purpose. Any movement that is to stand the test of time cannot waver when profits suffer; it must be rooted in the mission it seeks to accomplish. “When you’re doing something you’re so passionate about and you feel others have that same passion or commonality, that’s your genesis for a movement,” Kumra says.

    3. Tell a story. It’s not enough to simply sell a product or service anymore–you’ll find yourself drowning in a sea of competition. Instead, elevate yourself from the rest by aligning with a story that connects to consumers’ pain and provides a solution. A movement brand that has done this exceptionally well is Flint and Tinder, who famously won $1M in a kickstarter campaign that offered sweatshirts with a lifetime warranty as a way to take a stand against mainstream clothing that falls apart in months. Whatever your brand offering may be, position it as the unique solution to end a struggle that has had your audience feeling fed up for too long. Do this effectively, and your movement is bound to catch fire with a momentum of its own.

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  • How To Bring A Traveler’s Mindset To Everything You Do

    How To Bring A Traveler’s Mindset To Everything You Do

    Millennials in the work force are traveling more than any generation before. Each year, they average five business trips, compared to just two for those aged 35 and up.

    By 2020, millennials are projected to account for 50% of all business travel and 20% of all leisure travel.

    Besides just being fun, the travel trend sweeping Gen Y may actually be making them more productive. Neuroscientists claim that traveling increases the neuroplasticity of the brain, supporting creativity and innovation.

    “Foreign experiences increase both cognitive flexibility and depth and integrativeness of thought, the ability to make deep connections between disparate forms,” says Adam Galinsky, a professor at Columbia University.

    That’s why one young person is capitalizing on the benefits of travel to enhance the quality of her life and business year-round, and empowering others to do the same.

    Meet Ginger Kern, founder of The Traveler’s Mindset, a community hub helping thousands of travelers have transformational experiences abroad. She’s also a TEDx speaker, a leadership coach, and an avid traveler who tallied an impressive 25 countries by age 25.

    This week on the Unconventional Life podcast, Ginger shares how you can integrate the supercharged mindset of a traveler into your everyday life.

    Kern’s passion for travel stems from her love of adventure books as child. Growing up in quiet Milwaukee, WI, she recalls noticing a stark contrast between her life and the life of the stories’ characters. “I noticed all these characters would have these amazing adventures but I was just sitting there,” Kern jokes.

    The books invited Kern to a reality of adventure and possibility. In college, she chose to study French, German, and Italian to equip her for the ultimate adventures abroad.

    The cornerstone of Kern’s philosophy is that travel vacation and daily life don’t have to be separate realities. “We go on vacation and escape,” she says. “Mentally we put up this barrier–like we can be a certain way when we’re out there exploring and having adventures, doing new things, being curious. But when we come back home, we get stagnant, go into our routines, and totally get stuck.”

    The disconnect Kern observed between travel and everyday mindset sparked her inspiration for The Traveler’s Mindset, which serves as a bridge between the two. “The concept is openness, curiosity, and a sense of adventure no matter where you are in the world, even when you’re at home,” says Kern.

    When you practice the Traveler’s Mindset, you allow the benefits of travel to assimilate into your day-to-day life. Cognitive enhancements like higher creativity, better problem-solving, and increased depth of thought, become integrated seamlessly.

    If you’re having difficulty with finding the resources to travel, including time or financing, Kern’s site offers free advice to help make travel a reality for you, no matter what your situation. For example, if you’re locked into a location-dependent job, you might not have considered the possibility that you can actually ask your boss for an opportunity to travel or receive a raise. Focus on the value-add in creating a solution that would benefit you both–flexibility may be more available to you than you think.

    Below, Kern shares how you can capture the Traveler’s Mindset to approach your entire life with a greater sense of curiosity and zeal.

    1. Identify what inhibits you from feeling excitement and adventure. Notice what exactly in your life switches the off button of your excitement. “Maybe it’s how your boss treats you, or how you interact with your spouse or partner,” Kern says. “Do they always bring up that one thing that stops you from feeling alive?”

    2. Become 100% responsible for your response to it. Don’t blame the thing that you believe is taking away your excitement, because that will only leave your powerless. Instead, take accountability for your response to it. If you notice yourself feeling upset by the same thing across multiple situations, it is because the common denominator is you.

    3. Repair your relationship to it and allow your excitement to flow. The thing that is robbing you of your excitement can only continue to do so as long as you let it. Rather than try to change it, change yourself. How can you respond more openly to it, instead of closing to it? How can you find a way for your excitement to flow even when it is present? When you heal your relationship to what is bothering you in your life, you make it so nothing has the power to take away your joy.

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