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Author: Jules Schroeder

  • How This Millennial Thought Leader Is Using Facebook Live To Build Her Business

    How This Millennial Thought Leader Is Using Facebook Live To Build Her Business

    Over 22% of marketing emails never reach their subscribers’ inboxes. For marketers, these missing messages translate to devastating losses in potential revenue–totaling in the tens of millions annually.

    If you’ve ever crafted an email for a list of subscribers before, you know the amount of care that goes into writing each and every word. The fact that roughly a quarter of your messages are destined to be lost, denied, or in the spam folder is nothing short of an outrage.

    The good news is, it’s 2016, and you don’t have to continue using a marketing platform that’s leaking dollars out of your wallet. You can now use Facebook Live, the live-stream video tool that doubles as a sneaky marketing agent–generating 1200% more shares than images and text combined–and is rapidly replacing the prehistoric email opt-in.

    One millennial has developed an ingenious marketing strategy with Facebook Live that’s driving traffic and sales for her business. Meet Amanda Rivera, an influence and PR strategist for millennial entrepreneurs who is known for creating major press opportunities in under 5 minutes. Her Facebook group, Millennial Thought Leaders Mastermind, is a hub for exclusive, members-only content that has outsiders begging to be let in–and ultimately becoming buyers.

    Rivera reveals the details of her Facebook marketing machine on the latest episode of the Unconventional Life podcast.

    Rivera’s mission entails “bringing healing where there is suffering, hope where there is doubt, and courage where there is fear in the world.”

    The bulk of Rivera’s work occurs on Facebook, within her Millennial Mastermind group. She is constantly responding to comments, reviewing applications for new membership, and updating the page with enriching content–particularly via Facebook Live.

    “It’s like having a party at your house,” Rivera says. “You can’t just say here are the hors d’oeuvres, now fend for yourself. You have to be checking up on people making sure everyone’s ok. You really are the host of your Facebook group if you want to do it right.”

    When Rivera runs advertisements for her group, free live-streamed content is the focal point. Group members get access to frequent goodies like 1-hour talks led by prominent industry figures and thought leaders.

    Joining the group is like opting-in to free content, which tends to convert group members to paying customers at some point down the road.

    Part of what makes Facebook Live so effective is its format of active video engagement. Studies show video promotion is 600% more effective than print and direct mail combined, and that two out of every three people are more likely to watch a video than read text.

    Since launching her Facebook group, Rivera has attracted dozens of new and recurring clients for her business, as well as pioneered a successful marketing model for others to follow.

    Below, Rivera shares the key strategies behind using Facebook Live for business marketing.

    1. Let members know in advance when you’re going live. Rivera posts a weekly schedule of live speakers on the cover banner of her group. Doing this generates excitement and anticipation, as well as guarantees far more viewers per video. Design your schedule as a graphic with plenty of pictures, eye-popping text, and attractive headlines. Finally, consider offering free email notifications to let members know days, hours, and minutes before their favorite talks are going live.

    2. Curate your group to represent your target customer. Be selective and intentional about who joins your group. Consider requiring new members to apply for their spot; Rivera says she only accepts 1 of every 5 new members who apply. You’ll want the bulk of your members to represent your target market, so that they’re likely to be interested in what you post and will invest in paid content.

    3. Feature guest speakers who enhance the value of your group. Populating your group with enough quality content can be overwhelming if you’re trying to do it all on your own. Instead, reach out to figureheads and influencers in your industry to feature their content on your page and appear on Facebook Live. It’s a win-win for you both: they get free promotion, and your group becomes more valuable, increasing the appeal for new members to join and motivating existing members to stay active.

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  • 7 Steps Peak Performers Can Take To Achieve ‘Flow State’

    7 Steps Peak Performers Can Take To Achieve ‘Flow State’

    As millennials, we face a tremendous amount of pressure to perform daily.

    Just scroll through your social media feed and you will see article after article being shared of a millennial solving a world problem, accelerating his or her career, or launching a successful company.

    We live in an era where if you are not a successful artist, entrepreneur, or startup CEO by the time you’re 30 then it can feel like you are falling behind. According to one study, “67% of millennials said they felt “extreme” pressure to succeed, compared to 40% of Gen Xers and 23% of Boomers.”

    If you feel like time is running out and you still haven’t done enough yet, take a deep breath. Despite what you may have heard, success doesn’t actually have to be hard.

    Meet Justin Faerman and Jackie Knechtel, two millennials hacking the algorithm for peak performance through their program Flow Mastery, which guides you to shed limiting beliefs and approach life from a lens of infinite possibility. The secret ingredient they claim is called flow state, in which you experience “exponential growth and success effortlessly.”

    Faerman and Knechtel have been invited to speak about flow state internationally including many notable venues like the United Nations and the Women’s Economic Forum. This week on Unconventional Life, Faerman and Knechtel reveal how you can use flow to skyrocket your performance with only a fraction of the effort.

    According to Faerman and Knechtel, flow is achieved through an intensive process of clearing out limiting beliefs, fears, doubts, emotional wounds, and self-sabotaging patterns. It requires a willingness to let go of seeing life the way you have been taught, and to embrace the possibility that the restrictions you are living by do not actually exist but rather are a construct of the mind.

    “It’s these big massive mindset shifts–taking people out of fear-based thinking and out of these ideas that have been ingrained into us and learning to think through a different lens,” says Knechtel.

    Through their research of flow states, the two have developed a groundbreaking methodology to achieve sustained states of peak performance, without the hustle and grind commonly believed to be a requisite. “We’ve taken everything we know and created a system out of it. We’ve done a ton of research and mapped out what it means to live in flow–the different shifts you have to make, beliefs you have to have, ways you have to see the world. Once you do it, things start happening effortlessly,” Faerman says.

    Prior to working in flow, Knechtel ran a high-profile autism treatment practice where she was contracted to work all over the world, and even offered $10 million to open her own clinic. Faerman managed a multi-million dollar green tech division, and launched one of the world’s top conscious media platforms.

     Though they were already playing at a high level, they knew that more was possible, and were determined to uncover their full potential.

    Faerman and Knechtel’s hundreds of clients who have successfully made flow a part of their lives report powerful breakthroughs, including earning higher revenues, working less hours, and feeling aligned with their life purpose, all of which occur with minimal effort. Below, Knechtel and Faerman share seven steps you can take to master the flow state and experience peak performance in your own life.

    1. Shift your focus from mind to intuition. While your mind might doubt that something in your life is possible, your intuition isn’t limited by reason and can see past your immediate radar of possibilities. Cease identifying with your mind’s limited perspective and embrace the fact that possibilities exist that you can’t see.

    2. Prioritize your life based on what brings you joy. Spend most of your time doing what you love most. You may need to let go of the belief that if you do this, you will sacrifice your security. You can actually have both, if you choose to believe that joy and abundance go hand in hand.

    3. Be intentional with your language. “Language is generative and powerful. You speak things into existence that end up happening,” Knechtel says. Eliminate words like “I want” and “I hope” from your vocabulary, and be confident about your ability to produce the outcomes you want.

    4. Be able to recognize your Yes and your No. Be willing to walk away from things that aren’t fully aligned for you. If it’s not a resounding yes, don’t agree to it–this is an indicator that there is actually a better fit out there for you. Let go of the scarcity-mindset that an opportunity that isn’t fully aligned is the best you will get and you will create space for even better opportunities.

    5. Become aware of your limiting beliefs. Become aware of the dialogue going on in your head and challenge your thoughts. When you’re thinking something negative, ask yourself, “Why am I having this thought?” When you ask that question, you discover the limiting belief that sponsored that thought and are equipped with the awareness to begin to eradicate it.

    6. Take responsibility for everything in your life. Instead of attributing what is happening in your life to circumstances out of your control, take responsibility for it all. Be objective and accept where you are. When you take responsibility for everything, both good and bad, you restore power to yourself to create a different scenario that reflects what you truly want.

    7. Practice makes perfect. Clearing out your limiting beliefs takes time and persistence. “It might feel challenging because you’re shifting the way you see the world and working away beliefs you’ve held onto for so long,” Knechtel says. “Every time you see it working you learn to let go a little more.”

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  • Millennials, This Is What Your Quarter-Life Crisis Is Telling You

    Millennials, This Is What Your Quarter-Life Crisis Is Telling You

    It was 2 months before my 25th birthday. Everything in my life seemed upside down. My business was no longer exciting me, working out seemed mundane, and hanging out with friends felt like a chore.

    I started asking myself, do I really have the success that I thought I would have? Am I actually creating an impact on the world? Am I happy? What’s the point of all this anyway?

    I had found myself in a quarter-life crisis, or as The Museputs it, “a period of intense soul-searching and stress occurring in your mid 20s to early 30s,” typically because you feel you’re not achieving your full potential or are falling behind.

    According to The Guardian, the quarter-life crisis affects 86% of millennials, who report being bogged down by insecurities, disappointments, loneliness, and depression. Millennials, it’s less of a question of if you will experience a quarter-life crisis than it is a question of when.

    Fortunately, the quarter-life crisis doesn’t have to be something to fear. One young person shows us that it can actually be the thing you need to experience to take your life to the next level.

    Meet Robert MacNaughton, the cofounder and CEO of the Integral Center in Boulder, CO, an organization that is at cutting edge of personal and relational development. Through MacNaughton’s work he has helped tens of thousands create a massive impact in their lives and relationships. However, this would never have been possible for MacNaughton if he hadn’t rerouted his life at the crucible of a quarter-life crisis.

    I caught up with MacNaughton on the latest episode of Unconventional Life, “How to Beat the Quarter-Life Crisis and Uncover Your Life Purpose.”

    MacNaughton grew up in the deep south of Atlanta, Georgia. He was raised Catholic and attended a preparatory school, where “good Southern values” were instilled into him. Unlike most kids, MacNaughton was reluctant to accept what he was told as fact. He challenged the status quo, doubted his religious teachings, and refused to participate in the mainstream culture.

    MacNaughton recalls asking grand questions like, “What are these things that our family and culture is enrolling us into and saying we should care about? Why should we care about them and why should we just go through the motions?”

    He calls these things ‘Postmodern Integral Theory,’ which reflect a healthy skepticism towards traditional world views in order to transcend limited thinking and achieve greater mindfulness.

    It wasn’t until after graduating from college with a degree in music that MacNaughton’s questioning was truly put to the test. He had completed the socially-sanctioned path to education, yet he still felt lost, empty, and absent of purpose.

    Like all millennials in a quarter-life crisis, he had a choice to make: to succumb deeper to the depression, or to leverage the pressure as a force for change.

    Choosing the latter, MacNaughton applied for a job fixing computers at the Integral Institute, and was hired. Immersed in an environment of personal growth and accountability, he was able to take charge of his life and gain the expertise to ultimately found his own branch of the Integral Institute in Boulder, CO.

    Years later, the Integral Center at Boulder has evolved into an in-demand educational center through hosting events like the Relational Leadership Summit for business leaders and executives, or through providing a platform for thousands to experience personal and relational transformation.  Below, MacNaughton shares how you can hone into a quarter-life crisis and reroute yourself on the path to fulfillment and service.

    1. Step up and create the things you want to see in the world. MacNaughton created the Integral Center because he saw a tremendous need for it in his community. Rather than waiting around for someone else to build it, he stepped up and did it on his own. Drop the excuses about why you’re not the right one for the job: if you really want to see something get done in the world, who better than to do it than you?

    2. Stop trying to please others. “When I started thinking, what do other people want? What is the market hungry for? Those endeavors were the greatest failures,” MacNaughton says. Many of us create from a place of anticipating what others will want and trying to fulfill their needs. But when we create solely for others, it leaves us feeling empty, and oftentimes we’re unable to satisfy them afterall. Instead, focus on yourself and create things for the sake of your own enjoyment.

    3. Listen to your inner voice. “Your life purpose doesn’t yell at you, it whispers,” MacNaughton says. “You need to be listening for what’s whispering to you and what tingles the heart.” It can be tricky to recognize your own voice after you’ve spent most of your life listening to others, so listen carefully. Tune into what excites you and head in the direction of your joy.

    4. Uncover your identity by trying new things. You might not know yourself as well as you think you do. “The war of our identity and figuring out who we are and what we care about is our opportunity. This is the reason to get out of bed in the morning. Start a business, post something on Facebook and see what happens,” MacNaughton says.

    5. Tap into your resistance. Notice where you are feeling resistant to taking action or having trouble being with something. These wells of resistance are the greatest source for us to discover where our edge is and where we have room to grow. “Your angst is your liberation. Where your resistance and angst is highest is your greatest dividend for your own development and where you find why you’re here and what’s gonna be your greatest service for the world’s needs,” MacNaughton says.

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  • 5 Steps To Prep For Leaving Your Job To Start A New Business

    5 Steps To Prep For Leaving Your Job To Start A New Business

    After you’ve chosen a career path, it’s easy to feel like you’re locked into that decision for the rest of your life. Maybe your job isn’t fulfilling, isn’t providing you with sufficient opportunities to develop your leadership, or you just feel like there is nothing new there for you to learn.

    According to a survey from Deloitte, two-thirds of all millennials plan to leave their job by 2020 and 44% say they would leave their employer in the next 2 years.  If you have got the itch to leave your job, you are not alone.

    The average American switches careers six times throughout the course of their life–meaning there’s a lot more room for second chances than you might think. You may know it’s possible to make a career change, but understanding how to take action in your own life is a different matter.

    Meet Eric Finnigan, a professional copywriter and founder of Autopilot Email, an email marketing service agency that helps companies boost their revenues by $100k+ through automated emails. Today, Finnigan works a schedule on his own terms structured around projects he cares about. But just months ago, he was working a 9-5 for a corporate company that drained him.

    I spoke with Finnigan about how he was able to leave his former career and restore purpose to his work on this week’s episode of Unconventional Life, “How to Leave Your Corporate Job and Pursue Your Dreams.”

    Fresh out of college, Finnigan found himself broke and in debt, with all his credit cards maxed out and nowhere to turn. “I had this moment where I was like holy cow I just went to college and in theory I should be set financially, what’s going on?” he says. “It was kind of this panic moment where I realized I had to make money.”

    Like many new graduates in this position, Finnigan was eager to start paying down his debt and immediately got a job. Over the next seven years, he would dedicate nearly all of his energy to getting promotions and salary raises until his financial insecurity faded to a distant memory.

    Step by step, Finnigan climbed the corporate ladder to the position of Vice President, managing a $36 billion portfolio for his investment strategist company. His salary was abundant and he occupied a luxury apartment in NYC… yet something was missing.

    “I would sit at my desk and think, do I really want this? I had this moment of yeah, I had succeeded in what I wanted to do, but what I had been working towards it turned out wasn’t the thing that was actually fulfilling for me,” Finnigan reflects.

    Upon that realization, Finnigan decided it was time to make a change.

    He still depended on his job as a source of income, so he didn’t just quit on the spot. Instead, he began investing all of his free energy into his lifelong passion for writing, which he never pursued because he didn’t believe it could be profitable. Within several months of studying the art of copywriting, Finnigan felt confident he could monetize it and quit his corporate job.

    Today, Finnigan has created a livelihood around copywriting and has become one of the most sought-after contractors in his industry, running six and seven figure campaigns for many multi-million dollar clients. But the doubt and uncertainty that accompany making a major career change were not lost upon him. Below, Finnigan shares how you can succeed in making a similar transition.

    1. Learn from others. Immerse yourself in the stories of others who have already made this transition and are thriving on the other side. Listen to podcasts and seek out news articles to encourage, motivate, and inspire you to do the same. You’ll begin to feel like it is possible for you, too, and you’ll benefit from learning from their mistakes and advice.

    2. Ask for help. Ditch the mindset that you need to figure it all out on your own. “For me it was a matter of pride,” Finnigan says. “Have humility–you can make it much faster with help.” Asking for help might look like reading books, enrolling in courses, or finding a mentor. Guidance and accountability are essential to your success.

    3. Hustle on the side. Use your current job as a safety net so you don’t put too much pressure on yourself to “figure it out,” which can actually be counterproductive. Be reasonable and give yourself time to develop your new skill until you feel confident that it will be able to provide for you financially. Be prepared to put in the hours both for your current job and your emerging passion. “I worked 4 to 5 hours a day in addition to my job,” Finnigan recalls.

    4. Understand success isn’t linear. Unlike working in a corporate job, success isn’t linear when working for yourself. “It’s not like plug away for a few months and get your first paying customer, then in another few months get your 5th paying customer,” Finnigan says. “It’s frustrating coming from the corporate world, where you work hard and get a bonus at the end of the year.” While you may struggle at first, don’t be discouraged. Keep at it and be mindful of how you measure success–fulfillment is equally as important as profit.

    5. Create your own urgency. “If there’s no urgency on your end, no one’s going to create it for you,” Finnigan says. Develop a timeline for your goals to keep yourself on track and be willing to let go of whatever may be holding you back.

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  • How To Supercharge Your Coaching Company, From A Millennial Pulling In $150K Per Client

    How To Supercharge Your Coaching Company, From A Millennial Pulling In $150K Per Client

    If you’re like most millennials, one of your primary needs is to know your work has purpose.

    But just how much of an impact are millennials really making? One of the primary vehicles for impact, the $107 billion online education industry, may be falling short.

    In an age where you can learn just about anything online, many young people are eager to share their wisdom through web-based courses. However, the averagecompletion rate for online courses is just 7%.

    In other words, 93% of people who pursue online education don’t actually reap the benefits that were intended for them.

    That’s why one founder has devised a new model for learning–and it’s a lot more lucrative than creating traditional online courses, too.

    Meet Shannon Graham, an internationally renown success mentor who works with high-profile entrepreneurs . He charges $150k per client to work with him for a single year, with a minimum 3-year commitment. His clients have gone on to successfully complete massive projects, including a $220 million initiative to modernize India’s transportation system.

    I spoke with Graham about his no-nonsense approach to coaching on this week’s episode of Unconventional Life, “How To Charge $150k Per Client Per Year.”

    Graham got started in personal development at the early age of 16. He was known as the “unofficial life coach” for his high school peers. Back then, personal development resources weren’t as widely available–you couldn’t access a library of free podcasts or listen to motivational speeches on demand like you can today.

    However, Graham made due with what he had–he recalls purchasing one of Tony Robbins’ CDs and immediately listening to it in his car until 2 a.m. This no-excuses attitude would serve as a solid foundation for both his own growth and his service to others.

    So how did Graham create a coaching practice that charges 150k per client, per year?

    He says he noticed a “gap” in the coaching industry between the results clients hoped to achieve and the effectiveness of the services most coaches were offering. “The majority of people in the industry create products around leverage and automation. The challenge is if you have an online course 90% of people won’t do anything with it, and of those who do, less than 2% take action and get results,” he says.

    Graham’s solution was to provide a different kind of coaching service unlike any on the market. “The destination must have an adequate vehicle,” he says. “I don’t know of any Olympic athletes who get there via online programs. They each had one coach or a team of coaches who worked with them for a prolonged period of time very intensely.”

    Graham’s coaching practice provides intensive mentorship to entrepreneurs over the span of 3 to 5 years. He recognizes that real results require commitment, consistency, and accountability–which is why he doesn’t settle for mass-producing online programs that don’t actually make a difference in his clients’ lives.

    Millennial coaches, charging this same kind of price point is possible for you, too. Below, Graham shares how you can create a high-impact coaching practice and enroll clients who will happily pay top-dollar to work with you.

    1. Invest in yourself. “As a coach, you can only bring as much value as you have,” Graham says. Instead of focusing on your website or sales funnels, your constant focus should be on your own growth. Confront your weaknesses and address what you struggle the most with, so you can confidently guide your clients out of these same pitfalls from personal experience. You are your own product, so make your product the best it can be.

    2. Seek out your clients. Cut the marketing strategies that are designed to appeal to just about everyone who sees your ad or lands on your page. The truth is, the average person isn’t your ideal client. Your ideal client is deeply committed to personal growth and is willing to invest in the highest caliber coaching to get there. They aren’t interested in playing around with products or services that don’t work. “Go out and find your ideal clients and start conversations with them,” Graham advises.

    3. Be firm on your price. Don’t settle for a mediocre price point in order to appeal to more clients. You aren’t looking for a lot of clients, you are looking for the right client. “At the end of the day you don’t need a lot of clients if you charge high end prices,” Graham says. Name your price and stick to it. While most people will turn you down, when you do find the right client, it will be worth it.

    4. Engage deeply and personally. “Making a big impact has a lot more to do with depth than it does with width,” Graham says. Effective coaching should be specially tailored to the individual you are working with. There is no one-size-fits all. You must be willing to consistently meet your clients exactly where they are and give them advice that applies to their direct circumstances. Don’t be generic; be specific and personal. One man is doing this exceptionally well by engaging Millennials one-on-one on a show that shares their voices with the world.

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