Unconventional Life – Podcast, Blog, Live Events

Author: Jules Schroeder

  • Elevate Your Brand: Creating a 5-Star Customer Experience

    Elevate Your Brand: Creating a 5-Star Customer Experience

    Dafy Smith is the founder of Timescape, a company that creates bespoke vacations and gives you “once-in-a-lifetime” experiences.  Their New Years Eve event, Racing Time, takes 44 elite clientele around the world to celebrate New Years Eve not once, but twice. With a background in finances and tourism, and a Masters in International Relations, this multi-talented woman leaves no stone unturned.  For more information: https://www.timescapejourneys.com/  

    In Dafy’s episode you will learn…

    • How Dafy makes her clientele feel like royalty
    • How to listen to your guests and consistently exceed expectations
    • How to actualize your visions and creative ideas
    • How it just takes one person to change your life

    After being in the hospitality industry for 6+ years myself, I appreciated Dafy’s emphasis on attention to detail and going above and beyond for clientele.  Having the ability to readily anticipate guests needs and listen beyond what is being asked is a true skill and something you can cultivate through practice.

    What else does Dafy suggest to enhance your customer relations?

    Listen Beyond The Words. To stand out in this day and age you have to constantly be listening for people’s pain points and innovate from sought after solutions.  There are thousands of events that people are invited to every single day. Why should someone choose your offering over another experience?

    You have to ask questions and listen to feedback.  Guests need to feel that they are heard. Each request you follow through on will effectively increase rapport and build trust.

    Find What’s Available and Innovate. Dafy provides immense value in her suggestions for tourism and hospitality.  With Racing Time, Timescape has curated an experience that leaves nothing behind.  Celebrating New Years Eve twice is unheard of, and yet, she’s making it possible for 44 elite members invested in more than just an experience of a lifetime.  A percentage of the profits will be going towards raising money for underprivileged schools and planting trees to create a wider scope of impact.

    Dafy shares that she does things that move her, that help her network, interest her, and bring her pleasure. There is always something special that you can incorporate into your events.  Ask people in your network what they’d like to see or create something you wish to experience. Find what brings you joy and act from this place.

    Think Bigger. A perfect example of collaboration, Timescape is partnering with The Billionaire Society to pull off Racing Time.  The magnitude of what becomes possible increases exponentially when multiple visionaries come together to create. When you dream big, you give other dreamers permission to think bigger.  

    By creating experiences that activate change by nature of presence, such as Racing Time or Unconventional Life, people feel that they matter through the care and quality given by the hosts.  In a world where we are constantly taken from, it makes it that much more impactful when you give 200%.

    Amelia Broughton is a relational facilitator and purveyor of connection, pioneering a more connected, communication-savvy, and emotionally intelligent planet. She facilitates Authentic Relating and Relational Leadership in various settings and communities. Her expertise is in team dynamics and interpersonal relations. With over 10 years of experience on teams and in communities, Amelia’s vision for the world is one of beautiful interconnection, a place where we put down the distractions and to-do lists to bask in the miracles that surround us. The type of connection that nourishes us internally, externally and has every one of us feel seen, heard and loved with a true sense of belonging.  An active Unconventional Life member, Amelia recently became our Operations Director and will be consistently contributing her writing. 

  • How This Breast Cancer Survivor Ditched Wall Street To Live Her Dream Life

    How This Breast Cancer Survivor Ditched Wall Street To Live Her Dream Life

    Whitney is the founder of Warrior Girl, a life coaching business that is empowering women to design lives they love.  She also is the owner of clothing line, Flan de Coco and founded the urban dance project, The Mecca where she lives in Cali, Colombia. Click here to learn more.

    As part of the weekly Unconventional Life giveaway, Whitney is giving away a free 30-minute coaching session. Click here to enter the giveaway for a chance to win!

    In Whitney’s episode, you’ll learn:

    • How this woman left her 15-year career on Wall Street to live the life of her dreams
    • How pain seeds the way for new perspective and possibility
    • How an inspiring community is the biggest accelerator to your next big leap
    • How to say yes the life you wish to live and thrive

    Key Life Lessons from Whitney:

    Challenge Conventional Structures and Take the Leap of Faith. When fear and doubt wash over you, second-guessing your choices may hold you back from living your dream life.  Stepping outside the conventional lines causes you to take a step into the unknown.

    Whitney describes leaving her career on Wall Street as her “leap of faith”, she was terrified, but just knew she had to go.  She says, “I was more afraid of life staying the same than afraid of the uncertainty”. After a lifetime of being achievement-oriented and outwardly successful, she’d never stopped to ask what she truly wanted.  

    She reminds us that everyone has fears of failure or not being successful, but that it’s important to live life for yourself, not for other people and their expectations.  Give yourself the permission to think about what you truly want instead of what you are told to want.

    Anything is Possible. “It is always possible to pull victory from the jaws of defeat if you believe that it’s possible,” Whitney shares.  After leaving her job, moving to Colombia, she was diagnosed with breast cancer and every fear possible rose to the surface – vanity, fertility, financial, professional, relational, mortality – at once.  Whitney came face to face with herself as everything was stripped away.

    It was in this painful experience that it became very clear what her choice was.  As she laid in the hospital bed, she realized that she could continue being miserable and feel like life was over or make the best out of whatever time she had left on Earth.  This is the moment that everything started to transform.

    Whitney advises us to get outside our comfort zones and surrender the results.  She sees the pain as the gift that planted the seed for things to be different. What perspective do you have about pain?  Can you see the possibility for growth in any of your painful experiences?

    Surround Yourself With an Inspiring Community. A few months after Whitney’s recovery, she attended one of our Unconventional Life Business Accelerator Events in Nicaragua.  “For the first time I found myself in an environment where I was surrounded by a hundred other people that had the same exact vision and value system, and were going through the same exact issues, the same exact problems, the same exact fears…” she says.  Our community provided a safe space to amplify everything she’d been wanting for her life. It was the container that uplifted and encouraged her to show up in her full potential.

    Finding a community you resonate with will provide a support system on the entrepreneurial path.  It also provides immense value when you’re networking with people that are up to something beyond conventional terms.  Beyond business, feeling like you belong and being understood is a vital part of a thriving well-being. Instead of being questioned about your choices, what would it be like if your peers celebrated your differences?

    Amelia Broughton is a relational facilitator and purveyor of connection, pioneering a more connected, communication-savvy, and emotionally intelligent planet. She facilitates Authentic Relating and Relational Leadership in various settings and communities. Her expertise is in team dynamics and interpersonal relations. With over 10 years of experience on teams and in communities, Amelia’s vision for the world is one of beautiful interconnection, a place where we put down the distractions and to-do lists to bask in the miracles that surround us. The type of connection that nourishes us internally, externally and has every one of us feel seen, heard and loved with a true sense of belonging.  An active Unconventional Life member, Amelia recently became our Operations Director and will be consistently contributing her writing. 

  • The Keys to Mastering Wealth Consciousness

    The Keys to Mastering Wealth Consciousness

    Billionaire PA is the founder of Wealthy Minds, a motivational platform whose message is that anyone can create wealth, no matter what their current circumstances, by harnessing the power of their mind and manifestation. Billionaire is also a speaker and author of two published books, including My Mind is Wealthy.

    In this episode, Billionaire shares:

      • How he went from two-time convicted felon, turned down from 150+ jobs, and homeless to founder, author, and motivational speaker.
      • How to cultivate a profound sense of inner joy and contentment, independent of external conditions.
      • How to attract more wealth into your life by making a few shifts in mindset and habit.

    Lessons to take away from this episode:

    Don’t Seek Happiness; Seek Joy. While many of us use the words “joy” and “happiness” interchangeably, Billionaire makes an important distinction between the two: happiness is dependent on present circumstances, but joy is not. Moreover, happiness is an emotional state, but joy is an outlook on life that is rooted in a zen-like acceptance of what is. That is why when we pursue happiness, we can never seem to sustain it for very long. But when we pursue joy, we rest in a sense of contentment in all circumstances.

    A wise teacher once said, “build your house upon the rock,” for only a fool builds his house upon the sand. In other words, source your contentment from things that have a stable quality to them. Seek to be content even when things are not going your way. If your contentedness is contingent upon a given set of circumstances, you will experience whiplash because life is powerful and unpredictable. “I was joyful when I was homeless, and I’m still joyful now,” Billionaire says.

    Choose Your Friends Wisely. An old Spanish saying goes like this, “dime con quién andas y te diré quién eres.” It means, “tell me who who your friends are and I’ll tell you who you are.”

    This timeless saying communicates the fact that like attracts like. Billionaire says, “If you told me you were broke, I’m sure you could introduce me to five other broke people. If you told me you were a billionaire, I’m sure you could introduce me to five other billionaires.”

    Take an honest look at the company you’re keeping. Chances are, your friends and acquaintances are living a life that is in many ways similar to yours. If you’re not satisfied with that life, do something about it. Billionaire says, “Whenever I see a group I don’t want to be anything like I get away from it because I don’t want them to transmit their beliefs to me.”

    Action Step:

    A quick hack to “upgrade” your company is to have dinner at a fancy restaurant you dream of being able to afford on a regular basis. Even if you can’t afford to eat there right now, you can afford to drink water there; water is free. While you’re there, you’ll enter into a new sphere of conversations among a constellation of wealthy people. You may even make a valuable connection or receive an actionable piece of advice.

  • From 9-5 to Digital Nomad: How to Make the Transition

    From 9-5 to Digital Nomad: How to Make the Transition

    Marcus Meurer is the founder of DNX Global, a movement that connects and supports digital nomads around the world. He also hosts the DNX Podcast, which teaches tools for a more fulfilled life. DNX is hosting an upcoming event in Lisbon, Portugal, in September 2018, which will be featuring educational workshops centered around working remotely and living holistically. Click this link here to learn more

    In this episode, you’ll learn:

    • Why the life that’s “expected” of you might not be the one that fulfills you.
    • How to transition from a conventional 9-5 to nonconventional remote work.
    • Why your personal growth is directly proportional to the growth of your business.
    • How to uplevel your health and wellness, and access more clarity and vitality.

    3 Lessons from Marcus’ Interview:

    1. Leading a Fulfilled Life Requires Self-Awareness. Marcus emphasizes that the only way to be truly fulfilled is to know thyself. When you are in touch with yourself, you are able to give yourself what you desire most.

    Marcus says his life became exponentially more fulfilling when he decided to be honest with himself. He used to be “doing what people expected of me” — working a corporate job, climbing the ladder, etc. But inside, he“felt miserable.”

    That’s when he decided to quit his job and pursue success on his own terms.

    Marcus’ story teaches us that fulfillment is a product of self-awareness. If you seek more fulfillment in your life, be radically honest with yourself. Is the life you’re leading filling or draining you?

    2. Your Business Can Only Be As Big As You Are. Marcus also emphasizes the importance of self-development. He says, “your business can only grow as big as you have grown as a person.”

    In order to develop yourself, you must invest in yourself. You might hire a mentor, attend a conference, listen to podcasts, or read book summaries.

    3. A Good Morning Routine Helps You Start the Day Off Right. How does Marcus get so much done in a day? He says he gets an early start and performs rituals that set him up for success. His morning routine is as follows:

    • 5am wake up
    • Oil pulling for 20 minutes
    • Pushups
    • Gratitude routine
    • 7 minutes of stretching
    • Meditation

    Your morning sets the tone for the rest of your day. If you think you would benefit from a morning routine, design one and commit to it.