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  • Will This App Disrupt The $160 Billion Ad Industry By Replacing Ads With Positive Messages?

    Will This App Disrupt The $160 Billion Ad Industry By Replacing Ads With Positive Messages?

    We see advertisements everywhere. Whether we’re scrolling through social media, reading our favorite blogs, checking our email, online shopping, watching video content, or just surfing the web, we can’t escape them.

    That’s because the advertising industry funnels a tremendous amount of energy into digital ads — over $160 billion in 2015.

    Industry experts estimate that the average person is exposed to around 5,000 ads a day, which speaks volumes of the subconscious overload we experience to buy, buy, buy.

    But what if every time you got a message to consume, you got a message to create instead?

    That’s exactly the idea behind Intently, an innovative app that enables users to replace the ads they see on the internet with inspired content they choose.

    I caught up with Intently founder, Micha Mikailian, on this week’s episode of Unconventional Life, “Hijacking Your Subconscious Mind For Maximum Productivity.”

    Mikailian says the inspiration for Intently came from his frustration working in the ad industry. He ran a major ad agency for 12 years and was irritated by the deceptive and manipulative tactics businesses used to hook consumers.

    Aware of how much time and attention internet users spent looking at ads, Mikailian reasoned the ad space could actually be repurposed for good.

    With Intently, users can customize their internet experience with intentional messages aimed to inspire, motivate, and uplift them by downloading the Intently extension right to your browser.

    “I saw this vision for Intently, I saw that my ads were now messages that were getting me prepped for my next meeting, and supporting me throughout my day and reminding me what my goals were,” Mikailian says.

    Think of it like a digital vision board — except instead of putting it in your closet and forgetting about it, it follows you around the web so your goals stay fresh in mind. Wherever you would normally see an ad you will see your virtual vision board instead.

    Studies confirm that actually seeing your goals can help you achieve them. One study demonstrated that people who keep images, photos or vision boards of their goals are twice as confident about achieving them than those who don’t — and 91% of those who are successful attribute it to having envisioned a plan to get there.

    “It’s just priming your subconscious in terms of what you want to create in your life so by focusing on what you want to create and having an image of what that looks like you’re really setting yourself up naturally to take all the actions that are going to take you there,” Mikailian says.

    For decades, advertisers have utilized a powerful technique called subliminal messaging, which targets the subconscious mind to motivate behavior without the subject’s awareness.

    Being a veteran in the ad industry, Mikailian knew of this technique and decided to use it to actually benefit consumers. “I used the power of advertising — the same power of manipulation that advertisers use to get you to buy stuff — to reprogram a behavior in me, and in that moment it changed my experience of life,” Mikailian shares.Mikailian has used this reprogramming to transform the relationship with his mom, attract a great relationship partner, and shift recurring negative thought patterns.

    Now, former ad consumers are empowered to design their own subliminal messages that will motivate behaviors they want. You’re in the driver’s seat to customize your browsing experience in a way that supports you.

    If goal setting is important to you, you’ll first need to get clear on what exactly it is that you want. The more specific you are, the better. Instead of setting the goal of financial freedom, envision what you would do with the financial resources you want to have — what kind of lifestyle would you live? Would you travel, treat yourself to gourmet dinners, experience the city nightlife, or revamp your wardrobe and home?

    Once you’re clear on your goal, the path to actualizing it involves affirming it in your mind through repetition. Write down your goal, assemble a collage of images and words that remind you of it, and stick it on your Intently to see it over and over again.

    Can you imagine what might be possible for yourself if you were constantly reminded 5,000 times a day of the things you wanted to create, instead of the things that distract you?

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  • Playing Safe Can Actually Hurt You: 5 Ways To Take Risks That Will Pay Off

    Playing Safe Can Actually Hurt You: 5 Ways To Take Risks That Will Pay Off

    Millennials may be the most risk averse generation to date, and that isn’t necessarily a good thing.

    According to a recent study, 34% of millennials describe their risk tolerance as “conservative” or “somewhat conservative.”

    But can we blame them? They’re the first generation in modern history that isn’t wealthier than their parents. They’re chained to tens of thousands in student debt, they’re reluctant to spend what they have, and they struggle to make a living doing what they enjoy.

    While playing it safe may seem like the best thing to do, it may actually be hindering millennials from getting ahead. After all, risk-taking is an essential part of building a business, progressing in a career, and making a mark on the world.

    32-year-old Alexi Panos has a solution to combat risk aversion, and to start, it’s absolutely free: invest in yourself. Panos is a leader in the personal development industry, author of the book 50 Ways to Yay, and star of a successful YouTube channel.

    I caught up with Panos about how empowering yourself can help you take game-changing risks on the latest episode of Unconventional Life, “The Shortcut To Awaken You To Greatness w/ Millennial Thought Leader Alexi Panos.”

    Panos’ journey to self-empowerment began at the age of 15 when signed a recording contract that enabled her to tour the world. She traveled to Europe, Asia, Africa, and throughout the United States, quickly gaining fame and recognition.

    Soon, she was scouted by a modeling agency and was invited to be the host of major TV networks and web platforms, including HGTV, MTV, AOL, E News, and the History Channel.

    Although she was ascending the summit of material success, she says she wasn’t happy. “Is [material success] what we really want?” she says, “Or is that just a symptom of feeling empty? I think we have to chase that — like we have to almost go after that and get a slice of it to recognize that we don’t want it.”

    Upon this realization, Panos decided to take a big risk: uproot her life and make a major life change. She moved to LA and spent all of her savings on a podcast geared to help people to “awaken, revive, and transform” their lives.

    Though she wasn’t making money for over a year, she says the personal rewards were worth it. She was inspiring others to empower themselves, pursue what they really wanted, and take risks that paid off.

    “It’s not about me anymore, it’s the message and I’m willing to put me on the line for that message to be a ripple effect,” Panos says.

    Now, Panos has attained financial freedom and abundance doing fulfilling work she loves. Below, she shares 5 ways to begin taking risks so you can step into the next level of impact and live according to your higher desires.

    1. Stop trying to be a people pleaser. The desire to be liked by everyone can have you playing a small game trying to avoid stepping on toes. Accept that your message is inevitably going to offend people, and that’s actually a good sign. All of the world’s greatest leaders were considered radical in their time, yet they remedied injustices and are still remembered today.

    2. Be willing to rock the boat. If you really want to shake up the status quo, you have to be willing to rock the boat. That might mean boldly sharing your voice or unfiltering your message. Panos says, “If we’re not willing to rock the boat we’re not really doing anything that great or anything that different, so do we wanna just blend in and do what everyone else is doing so that we stay safe?

    3. Get vulnerable and share your story. Opening up about your personal experience can seem terrifying and intimidating. However, it tends to be what people resonate most with and are inspired by. The more transparent and honest you are, the more impactful you will be. “When I share that I’m human and that I mess up all the time, but I learn through that mess up, people love that,” Panos shares.

    4. Shatter what you think is possible. Don’t let society’s notion of what’s possible limit you. For decades, it was believed that breaking a four-minute mile was impossible — until Roger Bannister broke the record and set a new standard for racing. Whatever it is you think you can’t do is only a mental construct that can be uncreated. Approach your limits with the mindset that you can transcend them, and you will.

    5. Say yes to your intuition. The best guide for discerning when to take risks is our own inner voice. Check in with yourself and ask if you feel fully satisfied where you are or if something greater is calling to you. You may feel fear around making the decision to take a risk, but remember that on the other side of fear lies something spectacular. Panos says, “I just had this unwavering trust that it was gonna work out and I had no idea how it was gonna evolve, but I just knew I had to keep saying yes.”

    This article was originally published on Forbes

  • Why You Aren’t Getting Noticed: The One Skill To Learn As A Millennial Entrepreneur

    Why You Aren’t Getting Noticed: The One Skill To Learn As A Millennial Entrepreneur

    Electing autonomy and freedom over traditional 9 to 5 careers, millennials have been dubbed the “true entrepreneur generation.” In fact, a survey by Bentley University reported that 67% of millennials say their career goals involve starting their own businesses.

    In a world where millennials will comprise 75% of the U.S. workforce by 2025, this makes for a lot of entrepreneurs—totaling in the tens of millions.

    So, if building a business is on your list, you’ll now need to know more than just how to attract clients, close deals and scale profits. With so much competition, your most important skill may be standing out.

    Who better to learn from than a woman whose business has been named a Top 100 Most Influential Digital Media Site by the White House? Meet Britt Hysen, founder and editor in chief of MiLLENNiAL Magazine, a media lifestyle brand showcasing millennial influencers that boasts 380,000 monthly pageviews and reaches an audience in 197 countries.

    Hysen shares her secret to capturing the spotlight on the latest episode of Unconventional Life, “How To Stand Out: The Secret To Getting Publicity Organically with MiLLENNiAL Magazine Founder Britt Hysen”

    Hysen’s journey began with a three-year acting career that saw her appear on popular shows like Drake & Josh, Mad Men and Criminal Minds. As she advanced in her career, however, she found the “Hollywood sweet life” to be unfulfilling and decided to seek exposure through a different outlet.

    She picked up a mic, rallied some friends, and began interviewing them on camera, which eventually inspired her to create a platform that would broadcast their stories on a larger scale.

    “There’s no platform that’s actually telling these people’s stories. They deserve to have their stories told; I’m going to be the one to do it,” Hysen says.

    Now, Hysen features celebrities involved in causes, CEOs disrupting industries, activists taking a stand, and everyday people making a living doing what they love.

    “We focus this magazine on the do-gooders of our generation,” Hysen says. “We really want to provide valuable content that is inspirational in telling somebody else’s story or giving you the reader something concrete that you can add to your life.”

    When you’re just starting out, it can be challenging to stand out from and get the exposure you need to thrive. Below, Hysen shares the five biggest tips that have helped her capture attention and stay relevant.

    Target a niche. “I think everybody needs to have a niche: What is it that separates you from other people? Figure out what you’re most passionate about and then really dial in on that very specific topic, because you can’t be general. The second you go general you’re going to lose your audience.”

    Become an expert. In order to attract an audience, you’re going to need to establish yourself as a credible source for information. Spend time researching, seek out direct experience and work with people who are already established figureheads in your industry. The more you become a primary source, the more people will consult you first for their needs.

    Be picky. Don’t settle for producing just any old product. Develop a specific set of criteria that represents your brand and stick to it. Set the bar high, and you will become known for consistently producing top-grade content and products. Businesses that accomplish this get talked about, recommended and shared.
    Tap into your network. Hone your resources by finding out who’s already in your network that you can leverage. The more you grow your network, the more opportunities will show up to get noticed. You never know who might have an “in” with the editor of a big publication or who knows somebody influential who could seriously benefit you.

    Host your own event. Once you’ve assembled a network of like-minded entrepreneurs, bring them together at a focused event. The goal is to provide a space where people within your sphere can get to know each other, make connections, collaborate and benefit from the information you provide. This gets your name out and keeps you fresh in mind when your friends decide to host their own events. Hosting a summit is particularly effective; check out Christine King’s Millennial Shift Summit for inspiration.

    This article was originally published on Forbes

  • Millennials, Say Goodbye To Feeling Stuck: 3 Tips To Overcome Setbacks

    Millennials, Say Goodbye To Feeling Stuck: 3 Tips To Overcome Setbacks

    Abruptly, you feel stopped in the middle of your career path. The way ahead appears hazy and uncertain, with no clear opening in sight. You’re not sure what to do or where to go, so you stay put where you are — but your resources are running out.

    Perhaps you’re struggling to make a difficult decision, your finances are getting tight, you lack motivation, or you’re afraid of failure and making a big mistake.

    No matter the reason, the experience is the same — you feel stuck. And it can be incredibly challenging to muster the strength, confidence, and clarity to move forward.

    If there’s one man who knows this particularly well, it’s Steve Martel. He’s a real estate wealth expert who influences more than 100,000 entrepreneurs annually and has helped investors acquire over $350 million worth of real estate in the past three years alone. He also knows what it’s like to feel stuck and lose $47 million overnight, yet he hasn’t let it stop him.

    I spoke with Martel about his uncanny ability to get “unstuck” and keep moving forward on this week’s podcast episode, “How To Get Unstuck: The Secret To Overcoming Million Dollar Setbacks w/ Real Estate Mogul Steve Martel.”

    Martel’s drive stems from the battle with cancer he began waging at age 16. Doctors told him he had a 90% chance the cancer would persist, so he decided to start living like he was dying.

    “I had no choice, because I had built in my mind that I only had 5 more years to live,” Martel says.

    Instead of going to college, Martel began selling homes. At age 18, he sold 78 homes, while the average real estate agent sells 4 to 6.

    At age 21, he sold 250 homes and earned $4 million.

    From there, his trajectory only went up and up, but not without plenty of setbacks. Anyone who plays a big game knows it involves big risks.

    Martel’s gotten stuck more times than he can count. He’s declared bankruptcy, lost millions on deals, and even had business partners screw him out of contracts. Yet he is where he is today because of his commitment to persistence.

    “I counted, as an actual positive blessing, that I did go through cancer, because today I am living the most awesome life ever with my children, with my friends, with my business that I can’t even count as work,” Martel says.

    Below, Martel shares the secrets that have helped him get out of sticky situations and proceed to generate personal success.

    Live like there’s no tomorrow. If you believed your time was quickly dwindling, you wouldn’t wait to get started on doing the things you love, or creating the life you dream about. You wouldn’t make excuses for why you aren’t ready yet, or why you can’t get back in the game. You would possess the unparalleled drive of a dying man. You may not actually have a deadly disease, but you can choose to operate from this mindset to ignite the burner beneath your actions and hold yourself accountable to moving forward.

    Burn the bridges behind you. When you’re stuck in a rut, it can be tempting to backtrack and cling onto what feels safe. But this massively hinders your progress and keeps you in a state of fear. To ensure you avoid doing this, make it impossible for yourself to turn around. “The science behind momentum is burning the bridges behind you, share your passion and story with other people,” Martel says. “That now obligates you and commits you to actually moving on forward. You’ve got no other choice but to succeed and that’s how you have to see it in your head.”

    Be willing to take risks. The number one reason Martel became successful was because he didn’t shy away from taking risks. He dealt with enormous sums of money, reasoning that the only difference was “an extra zero.” Play a bigger game, and you will reap bigger rewards. When you can’t decide on your next move, take a risk and see what happens — if you happen to make a mistake, you will only learn from it and become wiser.

    This article was originally published on Forbes

  • Aspiring Millennial Coaches: This Mistake Is Keeping Your Business From Taking Off

    Aspiring Millennial Coaches: This Mistake Is Keeping Your Business From Taking Off

    Coaching is the second-fastest growing profession in the world, rivaled only by information technology.

    The multi-billion dollar coaching industry is booming, and entrepreneurs from around the world are taking note. As of late, it’s becoming “trendy” to become a personal development coach, especially for millennials.

    Millennials, take heed: the growing popularity is also something to be wary about. With everyone marketing themselves under the broad description of “coach,” it can be extremely difficult to stand out and get noticed.

    That’s why 5-time Oprah’s Lifeclass guest and Hay House author Lucy Sheridan has opted to brand herself as a “Comparison Coach,” catering to individuals who chronically compare themselves to others on social media. Before you question how there’s a large enough market for that, know she’s got clients from across the globe seeking her out for her unique offering.

    I caught up with Sheridan about how she’s successfully pioneered and profited from this niche on this week’s podcast episode, “How To Be The #1 Expert In Your Industry w/ Comparison Coach Lucy Sheridan”

    Sheridan’s interest in social comparison stemmed from her own experience being addicted to social media during a vulnerable time in her life. She recalls being absorbed with the successful lives of friends while, behind the scenes, her life was suffering.

    “There was a lot of Facebook-unfriendly stuff going on, you know, things that no filter and no careful words could put a good spin on,” she says.

    For two years, she remained fixated upon others’ digital highlights and envied what appeared to be out of reach for her.

    It was around 2010 that she began to seek out help by reading self-help books. She found healing in the openness and transparency of the self-development community, and was inspired to give back by launching her own coaching practice.

    She noticed that her online content got the most traction when she shared about social comparison — it sparked more views, and triggered more engaged conversations. It became increasingly apparent that people resonated with her experience and were hungry for information that addressed the root of the issue.

    Sheridan responded to the calling by centering her coaching solely around banishing comparisons, being the first to claim herself as an authority in the niche. “I just kept on bloody banging on about it,” she says. “Give the people what they want! Calling myself the comparison coach, using snippy lines… I don’t leave any of it to doubt, or talk about anything in general terms.”

    Her website currently reads, “Absolutely Focused on Helping Gen Y Go From ‘Compare and Despair’ to #ComparisonFree.”

    It’s Sheridan’s focus and ability to niche-down that’s made her in-demand and attracted the kind of clientele base every coach dreams of.

    By focusing on a very specific problem, such as those struggling with comparison issues, she was able to attract an audience very quickly on what she offers; instead of focusing her work very generally to appeal to the masses, a common mistake that most millennial coaches make when they are getting started.

    If you find yourself struggling to gain traction in your own business, consider it may be that you are trying to appeal to too large of an audience.

    Below, Sheridan shares how getting clear on your niche can make you successful.

    Get curious.

    Call to mind personal experiences that you struggled with and overcame. Think really specific — things that aren’t often talked about, or that might seem “taboo” to discuss. Oftentimes these are your best niche markets, because nobody’s offering a solution or providing a safe space to open up about them. Within your personal experience, get clear on what you learned, how you overcame it, and how you could help others.

    Bring your own interpretation to the table.

    Even if you can’t think of a totally “unique” experience, you can put a unique spin on a common experience that will help you to stand out. “It’s all how you package it,” Sheridan says. “Ultimately, everything is a copy of a copy of a copy, so what’s your spin on it?”

    Stop trying to be “everybody’s” coach.

    If you try to be “everybody’s” coach, you’ll end up being no one’s coach, because people are tired of general coaching that doesn’t help them overcome their specific problems. Structure your business around your niche and market yourself as a distinct kind of coach. You’ll be surprised how many people around the world are actually just looking for help in that department, and are going to seek out you.