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  • Millennials, Say Goodbye To Feeling Stuck: 3 Tips To Overcome Setbacks

    Millennials, Say Goodbye To Feeling Stuck: 3 Tips To Overcome Setbacks

    Abruptly, you feel stopped in the middle of your career path. The way ahead appears hazy and uncertain, with no clear opening in sight. You’re not sure what to do or where to go, so you stay put where you are — but your resources are running out.

    Perhaps you’re struggling to make a difficult decision, your finances are getting tight, you lack motivation, or you’re afraid of failure and making a big mistake.

    No matter the reason, the experience is the same — you feel stuck. And it can be incredibly challenging to muster the strength, confidence, and clarity to move forward.

    If there’s one man who knows this particularly well, it’s Steve Martel. He’s a real estate wealth expert who influences more than 100,000 entrepreneurs annually and has helped investors acquire over $350 million worth of real estate in the past three years alone. He also knows what it’s like to feel stuck and lose $47 million overnight, yet he hasn’t let it stop him.

    I spoke with Martel about his uncanny ability to get “unstuck” and keep moving forward on this week’s podcast episode, “How To Get Unstuck: The Secret To Overcoming Million Dollar Setbacks w/ Real Estate Mogul Steve Martel.”

    Martel’s drive stems from the battle with cancer he began waging at age 16. Doctors told him he had a 90% chance the cancer would persist, so he decided to start living like he was dying.

    “I had no choice, because I had built in my mind that I only had 5 more years to live,” Martel says.

    Instead of going to college, Martel began selling homes. At age 18, he sold 78 homes, while the average real estate agent sells 4 to 6.

    At age 21, he sold 250 homes and earned $4 million.

    From there, his trajectory only went up and up, but not without plenty of setbacks. Anyone who plays a big game knows it involves big risks.

    Martel’s gotten stuck more times than he can count. He’s declared bankruptcy, lost millions on deals, and even had business partners screw him out of contracts. Yet he is where he is today because of his commitment to persistence.

    “I counted, as an actual positive blessing, that I did go through cancer, because today I am living the most awesome life ever with my children, with my friends, with my business that I can’t even count as work,” Martel says.

    Below, Martel shares the secrets that have helped him get out of sticky situations and proceed to generate personal success.

    Live like there’s no tomorrow. If you believed your time was quickly dwindling, you wouldn’t wait to get started on doing the things you love, or creating the life you dream about. You wouldn’t make excuses for why you aren’t ready yet, or why you can’t get back in the game. You would possess the unparalleled drive of a dying man. You may not actually have a deadly disease, but you can choose to operate from this mindset to ignite the burner beneath your actions and hold yourself accountable to moving forward.

    Burn the bridges behind you. When you’re stuck in a rut, it can be tempting to backtrack and cling onto what feels safe. But this massively hinders your progress and keeps you in a state of fear. To ensure you avoid doing this, make it impossible for yourself to turn around. “The science behind momentum is burning the bridges behind you, share your passion and story with other people,” Martel says. “That now obligates you and commits you to actually moving on forward. You’ve got no other choice but to succeed and that’s how you have to see it in your head.”

    Be willing to take risks. The number one reason Martel became successful was because he didn’t shy away from taking risks. He dealt with enormous sums of money, reasoning that the only difference was “an extra zero.” Play a bigger game, and you will reap bigger rewards. When you can’t decide on your next move, take a risk and see what happens — if you happen to make a mistake, you will only learn from it and become wiser.

    This article was originally published on Forbes

  • Aspiring Millennial Coaches: This Mistake Is Keeping Your Business From Taking Off

    Aspiring Millennial Coaches: This Mistake Is Keeping Your Business From Taking Off

    Coaching is the second-fastest growing profession in the world, rivaled only by information technology.

    The multi-billion dollar coaching industry is booming, and entrepreneurs from around the world are taking note. As of late, it’s becoming “trendy” to become a personal development coach, especially for millennials.

    Millennials, take heed: the growing popularity is also something to be wary about. With everyone marketing themselves under the broad description of “coach,” it can be extremely difficult to stand out and get noticed.

    That’s why 5-time Oprah’s Lifeclass guest and Hay House author Lucy Sheridan has opted to brand herself as a “Comparison Coach,” catering to individuals who chronically compare themselves to others on social media. Before you question how there’s a large enough market for that, know she’s got clients from across the globe seeking her out for her unique offering.

    I caught up with Sheridan about how she’s successfully pioneered and profited from this niche on this week’s podcast episode, “How To Be The #1 Expert In Your Industry w/ Comparison Coach Lucy Sheridan”

    Sheridan’s interest in social comparison stemmed from her own experience being addicted to social media during a vulnerable time in her life. She recalls being absorbed with the successful lives of friends while, behind the scenes, her life was suffering.

    “There was a lot of Facebook-unfriendly stuff going on, you know, things that no filter and no careful words could put a good spin on,” she says.

    For two years, she remained fixated upon others’ digital highlights and envied what appeared to be out of reach for her.

    It was around 2010 that she began to seek out help by reading self-help books. She found healing in the openness and transparency of the self-development community, and was inspired to give back by launching her own coaching practice.

    She noticed that her online content got the most traction when she shared about social comparison — it sparked more views, and triggered more engaged conversations. It became increasingly apparent that people resonated with her experience and were hungry for information that addressed the root of the issue.

    Sheridan responded to the calling by centering her coaching solely around banishing comparisons, being the first to claim herself as an authority in the niche. “I just kept on bloody banging on about it,” she says. “Give the people what they want! Calling myself the comparison coach, using snippy lines… I don’t leave any of it to doubt, or talk about anything in general terms.”

    Her website currently reads, “Absolutely Focused on Helping Gen Y Go From ‘Compare and Despair’ to #ComparisonFree.”

    It’s Sheridan’s focus and ability to niche-down that’s made her in-demand and attracted the kind of clientele base every coach dreams of.

    By focusing on a very specific problem, such as those struggling with comparison issues, she was able to attract an audience very quickly on what she offers; instead of focusing her work very generally to appeal to the masses, a common mistake that most millennial coaches make when they are getting started.

    If you find yourself struggling to gain traction in your own business, consider it may be that you are trying to appeal to too large of an audience.

    Below, Sheridan shares how getting clear on your niche can make you successful.

    Get curious.

    Call to mind personal experiences that you struggled with and overcame. Think really specific — things that aren’t often talked about, or that might seem “taboo” to discuss. Oftentimes these are your best niche markets, because nobody’s offering a solution or providing a safe space to open up about them. Within your personal experience, get clear on what you learned, how you overcame it, and how you could help others.

    Bring your own interpretation to the table.

    Even if you can’t think of a totally “unique” experience, you can put a unique spin on a common experience that will help you to stand out. “It’s all how you package it,” Sheridan says. “Ultimately, everything is a copy of a copy of a copy, so what’s your spin on it?”

    Stop trying to be “everybody’s” coach.

    If you try to be “everybody’s” coach, you’ll end up being no one’s coach, because people are tired of general coaching that doesn’t help them overcome their specific problems. Structure your business around your niche and market yourself as a distinct kind of coach. You’ll be surprised how many people around the world are actually just looking for help in that department, and are going to seek out you.

  • The Single Trait That Leads To Success, According To NBA Champion Ronny Turiaf

    The Single Trait That Leads To Success, According To NBA Champion Ronny Turiaf

    Success is unpredictable — there are very few things we can do, if it all, to guarantee it.

    Whether you are trying to start your own business, training to run a marathon, or working on your own side hustle, life tends to throw things in our path that challenge us, provoke us, and test our commitment. Hardly anyone who’s reached the top will tell you that the road was easy, but they all have one thing in common: perseverance.

    Take it from a former NBA champion, who weathered open heart surgery, financial hardship, and a host of other injuries, for the sake of pursuing his dream.

    I’ve never met anyone quite as dedicated as Ronny Turiaf — he’s played basketball for the LA Lakers, Miami Heat, and the NY Knicks, to name a few. He’s also the founder of the Heart to Heart Foundation, which provides medical care for individuals who lack health insurance and can’t afford the care they need.

    I spoke with Ronny about his inspiring journey on this week’s podcast episode, “The Single Habit That Leads to Quantum Success, According to NBA Champion Ronny Turiaf.”

    Not many people are forced to choose between their life or their dream, and choose their dream. That was the position Ronny found himself in when he was about to be drafted for the LA Lakers in 2006, but was suddenly denied contract.

    A medical examination revealed he would need to undergo open heart surgery, or never be able to play basketball again. To make matters worse, he didn’t have health insurance and couldn’t pay for the surgery.

    Growing up in poverty, Ronny had always been motivated to play basketball with the hope of one day being able to provide for his family. Over the years he sacrificed birthday parties, family gatherings, and quality time in order to practice basketball.

    The medical situation was devastating to Ronny — not only could he lose his life, but everything he had hoped for in training over the last eight years. Fortunately, others came to his aid to help Ronny finance the surgery, and he opted to go through with it.

    The operation was successful, but it was Ronny’s perseverance and focus that really stood out.

    He remembers saying: “You are going to have to kill me because I will make it back to the basketball court. There is no alternative.”

    He could have succumbed to fear, and his journey would have ended right there. Instead, he summoned the courage to keep going and proceeded to shine in the NBA, making his childhood basketball dreams a reality and winning the NBA Championship in 2012 with the Miami Heat.

    Through Ronny’s story we see that success is defined by the choice to persevere through the moments that test us. When we commit to overcome every obstacle life throws at us, we become unstoppable, and success is inevitable.

    Consider applying the following tips to master the art of perseverance:

    Listen to your inner voice to help you make crucial decisions.

    When you find yourself at a fork in the road, check in with yourself and honor what your intuition or “gut feeling” is telling you. Sometimes, your own voice will say something different than what others say. Remember that you know yourself best and therefore have the best information set to determine what’s right for you. Regardless of what you do you will always make someone unhappy. Ronny says, “the only thing I can control is that it feels right in my belly, and that’s the only thing that can make me at peace and at ease with everything I do.”

    Push through the pain by focusing on your goal.

    Having a successful mindset involves accepting that it’s not always going to be easy. You will encounter trials that test how bad you want it. In the ten months leading up to winning the NBA championships in 2012 Ronny broke his hand twice. His advice? “Whether the storm.” When you find yourself in pain or challenged, remind yourself why it’s worth pushing through. Reaffirming your goal and the “why” behind your actions is the greatest fuel to empower you to keep going when it gets tough.

    Apply the same drive to every aspect of your life.

    It’s difficult to feel successful when you are only pursuing success in one aspect of your life. If your job is going great, but your health is another story, you’re bound to feel like a walking contradiction. To truly feel success from the inside out, you’ll need to apply the same drive you currently have in one area… to all areas. Ronny says, “I gave myself too much in one category and the others suffered. I asked myself, Ronny how can you find balance in all areas of your life? And yes, you are asking yourself to do something that is very difficult, but something that is worthy in your eyes, because I want to be great in everything that I do.”

    This article was originally published on Forbes

  • Why This 29-Year-Old Left Her Desk Job To Prosecute War Crimes With Technology

    Why This 29-Year-Old Left Her Desk Job To Prosecute War Crimes With Technology

    Due to ongoing political turmoil and social unrest, the Middle East is not exactly everyone’s dream job destination right now.

    Except for one daring woman, that is.

    Sweet, polite, and just 29 years old, Raquel Vasquez Llorente doesn’t look like the kind of person you’d expect to see flying into military airports in the midst of war. But don’t let her appearance fool you — she packs a serious punch.

    The lawyer and 2016 Forbes 30 Under 30 Europe honoree is an original team member behind the innovative app eyeWitness to Atrocities, developed by the International Bar Association (IBA), which aims to empower civilians to capture and report evidence of war crimes on their smartphones.

    I caught up with Llorente about her taste for pursuing dangerous work on this week’s podcast episode, “Fueling Your Passion: When To Choose Anger Over Love w/ Raquel Vasquez Llorente”

    Growing up in a tumultuous northern Spain during the 1990s, Llorente was exposed to the harsh face of reality from an early age. It was then that she developed an interest in civil violence and its implications for human justice and desired to pursue a law degree.

    Her path to prosecute war crimes started out relatively peaceful, with a government internship at the National Commission of Energy in Spain checking algorithms for electricity prices. “It wasn’t something that kept me awake at night,” says Llorente.

    It wasn’t until she ended up in Libya in 2013, at the start of their civil war, that she could see the impact of these crimes on civilians.

    In that process, Llorente found that, “The things that drive me the most are things that make me really upset and angry. Impunity for war crimes really upsets me to my limits so I wanted to go into international justice and feel that upset all the time about the crimes that are being committed and going unpunished.”

    Llorente’s anger became her fuel and instead of repressing it, she let that guide her forward. Ultimately, leading her to join as one of the first few team members of eyeWitness to Atrocities, where that fuel is used daily through channeling technology as a means for ending impunity for war crimes.

    Since launching last year, eyeWitness users can download the app for free to their phones, to record, store, and send footage that can later be verified for use in media coverage or legal cases.

    The app automatically records the GPS coordinates of where the image was captured and stores the image in a vault maintained by LexisNexis , the world’s largest electronic database for legal information and public records. It’s aiming to increase the number of successful prosecutions by eliminating the need for the person to show up in court especially if they are unwilling or unable to testify.

    Through Llorente’s participation at eyeWitness, since joining in 2015 as a war crimes analyst, she is able to combine all of her passions into one form of self-expression- her love of law, love of being in the field, and love of seeing justice served.

    Llorente says. “It is very important to love what you do, but almost more important that whatever you do or are trying to solve makes you upset and angry so you keep going. If love works then that’s fine and if it works better being upset then go there instead.”

    It’s not every day a woman chooses to tackle the brutal offenses of war criminals through harnessing her anger. Yet, what a different world we might live in if expressing anger were not so uncommon.

    How will you step up to create the kind of world you desire living in?

    This article was originally published on Forbes

  • Why One 24-Year-Old Decided To Grow His Business Without Startup Capital

    Why One 24-Year-Old Decided To Grow His Business Without Startup Capital

    Ask just about any founder the number one resource they feel they need to get started. The answer you will most likely hear? Seed money.

    These days, it has basically become a requirement for startups to get funding with venture capital. There’s an emphasis on scaling as quickly as possible, because growth is believed to reflect future success and an eventual high dollar payout.

    But does this method actually produce the desired results? Michael Levine of Global Food Solutions, a New York-based company that provides high quality, locally sourced food products to schools across the US, says he’s succeeded by following a different strategy.

    The 24-year-old CEO and chef now makes over $15 million in revenue annually, and hasn’t given stake of his business to investors. He says he isn’t willing to force business growth, and instead focuses on staying flexible and present.

    I caught up with Levine about his commitment to honoring the process of his startup’s development on this week’s podcast episode, “Why You Can’t Rush Growth w/ Food Company Founder Michael Levine Who Generates $15 Million In Revenue Annually.”

    It all started with a muffin. The artificially flavored, high-fructose corn syrup filled bakery item troubled Levine and inspired him to create a healthier version. He swapped oil for applesauce, switched to whole grains, and sweetened it with yogurt. At this point, he had no intention of impacting anyone else (like the three million students he does today) — he was simply focused on creating a quality muffin.

    When Levine launched the muffin, he focused on finding existing large scale networks of distribution, which let him to the NYC public school system. After sending a few emails to key decision makers branding himself as a recent college graduate looking to sell his product he was able to secure a meeting. Soon after he began receiving offers soliciting over one million muffins a month.

    Levine’s healthy initiative coincided with the launch of Michelle Obama’s “Let’s Move!” program in 2010, aimed towards fighting childhood obesity, which put the school food service industry in desperate need of nutritious food products.

    Although the monthly output of one million muffins would have yielded tremendous profits, Levine felt it was a stretch. He opted instead to grow the business at a pace he could manage, one step at a time–sourcing local bakeries for production and having his clients pick up the product instead of offering delivery.

    Levine was clear that he didn’t want to focus his efforts on playing in the ‘venture capital bubble’. As he saw it, “I struggled to comprehend this philosophy that it’s okay for a startup to not make money for long periods of time. I wanted to create a revenue generating model from the start instead of taking venture capital money, hiring a bunch of people, and growing the company overnight.” Levine goes on to say, “Let it grow at the rate it is supposed to without forcing that growth.”

    That choice proved to be incredibly valuable. In allowing the business to unfold naturally, without pressure from funders, Levine was able to focus on quality and production, which set his company apart from others in the industry. Ultimately, this led to over $15 million in annual revenue.

    Want to take a similar approach when starting your company? Consider the following steps to know when to back off and let your business run its course for a more natural growth process.

    It doesn’t have to be perfect to be profitable. When you let go of the need to be perfect, you open yourself up to release more products that will probably satisfy the market need just as well. “Some of the best baseball players in history bat 300 (out of 1000) and they’re getting paid 100 million dollars. So every ideation you have, it’s not going to be perfect, nor should it be,” Levine says.

    Don’t rush into growth. Growing should feel natural — think of how an organism grows at a steady rate to sustain itself every step of the way. If the lungs were to grow too fast, the tissue might tear and the entire breathing process would be destroyed. Allow your company to acquire the necessary resources in every department first, and you will find that when you are ready to upsize, the right opportunities will present themselves at the right time.

    Your first idea isn’t always your best. Give yourself room to go through the creative process. Levine shares, “I think a lot of people get stuck in the mindset that they’ve had this great idea and they’ve put the whole thing together and they plan to execute that, but a lot of times you can’t execute what happens on paper because there’s a lot of dynamics that are gonna change when you bring a project from inception to reality.” Be patient and let experimentation happen as often as it needs to.

    Failure is part of the process. Making mistakes is part of the natural progression of the creative process — it alerts you to what isn’t working so you can build a better product. The more you fail, the better the result you’ll end up with. Try to disidentify with the emotional aspect of failure and use it as a platform to improve. Levine says, “I view failure more as just you’re turning the car to the left and now you’re not going straight anymore.”

    This article was originally published on Forbes